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Meet
the Women of Thailand
Thai ladies are more conservative
than women in many other countries and observe different
customs. You will gain a lot of respect and avoid
embarrassment in Thailand if you follow Thai social rules and
customs. Be careful not to embarrass your lady. Holding hands,
hugging or kissing in public, for example, are not permitted.
Never lose your temper or speak out of line in Thailand.
Always show respect for Buddhist monks, temples and statues of
the Buddha. Never touch a child's head and never point at
anything with your foot. Just a few simple rules to remember.
Thailand is called the land of smiles so smile a lot and enjoy
the wonderfully positive atmosphere around you.
Thailand is in the tropical zone. It
is quite hot there from April through October but from
November to March the climate is very enjoyable. Compared with
city dwellers in western countries, city residents in Thailand
dress conservatively. Casual dress is acceptable in resort
areas but sandals and shorts are not allowed in the cities,
temples and in some restaurants. Always remove your shoes
before entering a temple (wat) or someone's house.
When traveling around Thailand, it is a good idea to use
private transport and ride in an air-conditioned vehicle. Such
transport is very affordable and travel arrangements can be
made through a travel agent or at your hotel. Traveling in
comfort is an easy way to see the country and it will give you
time to get to know your lady. Let her be your guide and show
you the sights. We strongly suggest you learn some basic Thai
words and expressions such as those listed on this web site.
The locals are usually very helpful and you can make friends
easily.
Thailand is a great country to visit so relax and enjoy the
atmosphere, the food and, of course, the company of your lady.
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Meet
the Women of the Philippines
Filipina women
are renowned for their beauty, femininity and traditional
family values. They are sincere, devoted and they believe in a
lasting marriage. The majority of our members are in the
Philippines. Our personal opinion reflects the fact that
Filipina women stand out among Asian women in terms of charm,
openness, intelligence, education and trustworthiness. In
addition, Filipina women make excellent wives, and they excel
and value their husbands as their priority. They are very
affectionate and romantic, and their focus and goals is giving
their man tender loving care, surpasses all the women in South
East Asia. They are well educated in their different
respective professions and you’ll find them very mature in
their thinking. They are mature for their age and view older
men as more stable and responsible partner.
These ladies are very feminine and gentle, cultured and
passionate. They enjoy the outdoors as much as indoor
activities. Their outer physical beauties coupled with their
wonderful personality, high level of intelligence, sense of
humor and sincere devotion to their man creates one of the
strongest relationships you could ever hope to find.
The Philippines, an archipelago of more than 7,000 islands, is
a melting pot of races, a blend of Malayan, Hispanic and
American influences. The distinctive Filipina beauty is a
happy mixture of these races. The Filipina owes her excellent
command of the English language and openness to the world to
the American system of government and education.
We have not found the language difference to be a barrier to
communicate well with English speaking people as they all
read, write and speak English. Even women with only high
school education can speak and write English well, as this is
the second language. English is being taught in school since
first grade as the medium of instruction.
When traveling around the Philippines, it is a good idea to
use private transport and ride in an air-conditioned vehicle.
Such transport is very affordable and travel arrangements can
be made through a travel agent or at your hotel. Traveling in
comfort is an easy way to see the country and it will give you
times to get to know your lady. Let her be your guide and show
you sights. We strongly suggest you learn some basic tagalog
words and phrases so that the locals that are usually very
helpful can make friends to you easily.
Philippines is a great country to visit and relax and enjoy
the atmosphere, the food and, the hospitality of the people
and of course, the company of your lady.
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Meet
the Women of the Vietnam
Here are few
helpful Tips that you can use in to improve your chances of
success in finding and obtaining the perfect lifelong partner
from our service. We at Asian Ladies through our own
experiences in dealing with the women in Vietnam believe that
there are definite guide lines which can help you to not make
the same mistakes as others have in the past. In addition,
benefit from others who do have very successful and happy
relationships with these exceptional women. We Do Not
guarantee that you will win the heart of any woman based on
the advice we give you, but we are confident the advice will
put you a mile ahead of the game. Remember, we are an
introduction service so the all the tips we give are aimed
only towards the first few steps of introducing yourself and
how to respond to the women in the beginnings of your
correspondence with her.
Before you read further we want to say that any of the advice
or realities written in this section SHOULD NOT DISCOURAGE YOU
in the least. These women are using our service because they
ARE available and want to find a true life long partner.
If you are really interested in a certain lady do not send
your first letter without a photograph of yourself. Remember
the women from our service are very attractive and appealing
so you can bet that one lady is probably exchanging letters
with a few different men already. So you want to improve your
chances by letting her see you in a photograph. A picture
speaks a thousand words. Most of the women have some English
skills but if she receives a letter from you and she can’t
see your face she most likely won’t take the time to read
your letter. Put yourself in her shoes, Which men would you
reply to?
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Keep
your first letter short and sweet. Don’t
overwhelm the lady with a letter that is too wordy and
long. Introduce yourself and maybe give her a few
reasons why you have chosen to write to her in
particular. Complements never hurt but, don’t over do
it or she will think you are not being sincere.
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Spell
her name correctly and in the right order. This
makes a nice, logical first impression. Read more on
Vietnamese names in the lower section of this page.
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Read
her bio carefully and try to
comment on what she has taken the time out to write
about herself. Don’t concentrate too much on her
beauty or she will think that you don’t want to know
her as person.
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Be
patient. Try not to get to
frustrated because of the time it takes for the ladies
to reply. Vietnam is still learning to do the regular
things we take for granted such as mailing a letter. It
takes time to send and receive post to and from Vietnam.
If you think you have lost communication with a lady try
sending her a letter telling her you know the mail takes
a long time sometimes and you just want to let her know
you are still thinking about her.
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Love
at first sight: Vietnamese
women DO NOT believe in love at first sight. This is a
purely western phenomenon. Be careful not scare the lady
by telling her you love her or that she is definitely
THE ONE based on her photograph only. There are ways to
let the women know that she is special and that you have
a good feeling about her by her picture without coming
on too strong. If you do make this mistake you will
spend forever trying to explain to her why you fell this
way about her. Because she will definitely question your
sincerity and motives, and most likely be quite blunt
about it. Or she will be so overwhelmed by you she
won’t write you back. Take your time and as we have
said and will say again, these women most of all want
understanding. Vietnamese women look for men that pay
attention to the way they feel and the way they think.
The ladies of Vietnam know this takes a little time and
will not over look their beliefs on the matter.
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Taboo
subjects: Here a few subjects
to be avoided the start of correspondence. The Vietnam
War, there is a saying here “ Vietnam is a country NOT
a War!” Vietnam has truly put the war past them and
the people here would much rather talk about future
their country than the past. Death in the family, if a
lady mentions that her mother or father has passed away,
in your reply let her know you are sorry to hear this
and leave at that. Don’ ask why, or ask what happened
or she will you are very impolite if you continue the
subject. Your past love life, Be honest with her if you
are divorced and or have children, but the ladies
won’t want hear the details of your past romances.
Sex, Please avoid this topic at all costs in the
beginning of correspondence this is an embarrassing
subject that can easily make the lady feel
uncomfortable.
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The
little things: Vietnamese
women can easily feel appreciated by the little things
that you do for her. This does not mean she is small
minded it means she knows that she is not forgotten or
neglected. We know men can get very busy in their work
life and these women know this also. The difference
between these women and women from the west is that most
will be very supportive of your work life as long as she
knows you still think about her. During the Vietnam War
Vietnamese women faithfully waited literally years for
their loved ones too come home. During this time they
kept their families together and in many cases had to
provide for their families just as the man would. You
might think this is an extreme example but the point is
that they know their responsibility as a partner. They
won’t forget you so don’t forget them!
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Small
things: learn 20 words in
Vietnamese and you will be very surprised by her
reaction and will have just put yourself 20 steps in
front of the guy who didn't learn any words.
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Good
luck and bad luck: Vietnam is
a very superstitious country and relies on luck as their
guide to a brighter future. We suggest that you read a
little about the Chinese Calendar which is the calendar
the Vietnamese follow. This is a subject that all the
ladies will enjoy.
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Handsome
men: If you ask a Vietnamese
woman about handsome men they will tell you that they
would much rather have an honest and faithful man. So
don’t worry about how you look to them concentrate on
making the lady feel secure in the fact that you won’t
leave her for another woman. We say this in all honesty
and confidence. It may sound like a sales tactic to
some, but we encourage you to ask anyone who has had any
dealings with Vietnamese women and they will confirm
what we have just told you. Or read the bios and count
how many request handsome men, or ask just ask her
yourself.
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Money:
Money can’t buy love we all
know this, but these women are not rich by any means. We
can’t guarantee some won’t ask for money so just be
careful and use common sense. If you feel comfortable
sending money we at Asian Ladies will not tell you not
to do this. We will tell you to be aware and take care.
There are many ways to show your support without sending
money, and If you send gifts try to make them functional
and appropriate. But don’t forget the flowers and
chocolate they are still women and love the same things
as most other women love.
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Language
barriers: If some sort of
misunderstanding arises during correspondence it is most
likely due to a language barrier. So sometimes you might
have to be very patient and try to be as clear as
possible as to your intentions. Don’t give up on her
because it takes a little work to understand each other.
You might have to tell her the same thing, you might
have to ask to please be patient with YOU and not to
give up on YOU. If you can do this gently and sincerely
you have a 1000 times more of a chance to patch up any
rocky moments in the beginning stages of correspondence.
We
hope this information will be helpful to you. If you have any
questions we will be glad to answer them as best we can. But
truly the best advice we can give is “BE YOURSELF”. That
might be exactly what she is looking for!
One of the great myths about the women in Vietnam is that they
are submissive by nature. Qualities such as devotion and
loyalty are often misinterpreted for submissiveness.
Vietnamese women have a long history of being faithful, loyal
and devoted to family, country, and culture.
If you ask a Vietnamese man to describe the women of their
country submissiveness would not be one the characteristics
used in their portrayal of the women in Vietnam.
Vietnamese women are extremely hard working and resourceful.
As history has proved in the difficult times of the country
when the women fought along side the men, but they are very
gentle and very feminine by nature and are equally as
comfortable in a domestic situation as in a social
environment.
One reason that many men have found Vietnamese women so
appealing is the fact that they are very intelligent and
capable in most situations and are exceptionally good with
organizing the household budget as well as a natural
shrewdness in business dealings. Their loyalty to family and
spouse makes them also very trustworthy with the right mate.
In comparison to the rest of Asia, Vietnam is one of the only
counties that has truly kept it’s traditions and culture
alive. This can be contributed to the women of Vietnam for
they are ones to sustain and nurture the age old traditional
beliefs of their elders and ancestors. One of the finest
examples is the traditional Vietnamese dress “The Ao Dai”
( Pronounced Ou Yai ) beautiful, sleek and extremely feminine.
The Ao Dai represents the purity and virility of the women in
Vietnam.
Vietnamese women make the ideal lifelong companions for any
man in search of family values and a strong long lasting
relationship. The key to a successful marriage or friendship
with a Vietnamese woman is to remember that Vietnamese women
are in search of the man that can truly understand and value
her as a person and a woman. They are definitely not simple by
nature, but are easily pleased when felt appreciated and
loved.
What’s in a name? Vietnamese names are both interesting and
complex. Most Vietnamese names are derived from China names
thousands of years ago. The majority of names have a specific
meaning or concept, which relates to many things such as,
beauty, strength or natural phenomenon. Here a few examples:
Hoa, which is pronounced hwa, means flower, Ngoc, which is
pronounced nop, means precious stone, Tuyet, which is
pronounced Twit means snow and Trung, which is pronounced
trume, means loyal.
The order of Vietnamese names are opposite to that of western
names. The family name (last name) is always on the left. The
first name (Given name) is always on the right. Vietnamese
names have anywhere from 3 to 5 parts. First name, middle
name, last name and a classifier. The family name comes from
the father. The middle name can come from the mother’s
maiden name or it can be a chosen name by the parents. The
first name is a chosen name just as any first name in the
west. Example: Nguyen Thi Hong Minh, Nguyen is the
family name, Thi is the classifier, Hong is the
middle name, and Minh is the first name.
If you browse through some of the photos on this site and read
the bios you will see that many of the Ladies have the word Thi
in their name. Thi is a classifier that lets you know
this name belongs to a woman. Most Vietnamese names have no
gender, which is to say that they can be used for both men and
women. Thi is a classifier used for a woman and Van
is a classifier used for a man.
Knowing how to write, pronounce and having an idea of what the
ladies names means will always make them feel appreciated and
she will know you are truly interested in her. Imagine her
receiving your first letter and the first thing she notices is
that you have written her name incorrectly. A good first
impression is one of the keys to success with Vietnamese
women, and a small thing such as a name can make all the
difference. Remember you never get a second chance at a first
impression.
We hope that the above has given you an insight into meeting
Vietnam Ladies.
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